July 1: Thoughts for the Day

Six months have passed since we had the opportunity to create a year, 2014, in which everything changed for the better. We need not admit failure and wait for January 1 to give us another opportunity. The number we attach to the year is simply a convenient label.  Every day begins a new year, so the calendar gives us no excuses.

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A Semblance of Freedom

This evening, I had an epiphany.  I again came to the understanding that I don’t need yet another corporate overlord.

So I quit Facebook.  I’ve done it several times before.  And this time may not last.  But it felt right to just cut the cord.  I have been reading too much about Facebook conducting research on its subscribers who failed to fully read and comprehend the terms of service, which permits Facebook to treat its subscribers as guinea pigs.  And it just pissed me off.

Don’t get me wrong.  I like what Facebook does for me.  It keeps me connected to people with whom, otherwise, I would be unlikely to stay in touch.  I like being able to stay connected with some media outlets and businesses that post on Facebook.  I enjoy the interaction.  But I am just sick and tired of Facebook and damn near every other business that uses and abuses its capacity to manipulate me.  Pardon me, but screw them!

I’ve become dependent on Facebook.  It’s an easy-to-use resource that feeds me information.  I need a different diet.  Maybe I’ll start using Twitter.  Maybe I’ll refrain from anything but my blog.  The people who want to know what I’m up to can find me here.  And they can share their updates here.  And they can start their own blogs and Twitter accounts and I can follow them there.  But, for now, I won’t be following them on Facebook. I do hope I have just a little bit of discipline.

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Sweet Dreams are Made of This…

It is my position that dreams manifest incomplete, or unsatisfactory, thoughts.  They attempt to resolve unanswered questions…questions we may not know, consciously, we’ve been trying to answer.

People who are paid to interpret dreams are, in my humble opinion, frauds.  They have no more business interpreting dreams than I have interpreting CAT Scans.

That having been said, I think dreams can hold the keys to hidden fears and desires and things too raw to reside in wakefulness. Meditate on a dream…spend a solid 20 minutes to an hour focusing on it…and you’ll get answers.  They may not be the answers you want, they may be incomplete, but they will be answers.

 

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June 30: Thoughts for the Day

Humans rarely have a front row seat to Nature’s wonders.  No, that’s not true; we rarely take the time to watch from our front row seat.  But when we do, when we watch and absorb what we see, we have no choice but to be humble.  We are not so special, after all. We are simply witness to the spectacular.

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June 29: Thoughts for the Day

I’m writing this before I go to bed on June 28. Perhaps I should label this June 28: Late in the Day Thoughts. But I won’t. I’ll just post the June 29 thought early.

People are capable of unfathomable goodness. Yes, they can do unspeakably bad things, but people have the capacity for extraordinary generosity and kindness.

The word “worship” has always had negative connotations for me. I’ve always felt it suggests weakness. It has suggested adoration of an illusion.

But now, today, I worship unexpected goodness that has no motive other than making lives better. I can’t point to a specific incident that brought this to mind, other than a chance encounter at a gas station (maybe I’ll write about that later); no one “broke the mold” for me today. But today, especially now late in the day, I just feel it.

Let me spread the love a bit.  June 29, 2014 is a wonderful day.   Although June 28 was a tad better, because it was my wife’s birthday.  June 29 is new; we should treat it as the opportunity it is.

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June 28: Thoughts for the Day

Today is my favorite wife’s birthday!  Happy birthday, favorite wife!  I hope your day is wonderful! (She doesn’t read my blog much…but I wish her a happy birthday, anyway.)

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June 27: Thoughts for the Day

Despite an annoying morning, filled with expensive news and unpleasant understanding, yesterday turned out OK. I could have allowed my mood to succumb to the messages…and for awhile I did…but the better option was to let the early ugliness turn into a bright, interesting, informative day, which it did.  Now: how to ensure my transmogrification becomes a habit!

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June 26: Thoughts for the Day

There is a flower under every rock, a beautiful flower.  Find it.  Cultivate it.

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June 25: Thoughts for the Day

Commit to being happy.  It works wonders.

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June 24: Thoughts for the Day

It is said that a person learns from his or her mistakes, gathering knowledge along the way. I am afraid my head may explode, because there must be a limit to how much knowledge my head can hold.

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June 23: Thoughts for the Day

When you are able to be alone with yourself.  When you are able to freely and honestly examine your thoughts without judgment.  When you can dispassionately assess your life without pride or condemnation.  Then, and only then, will you really know who you are.  Until then, it is all supposition and guesswork. How long does it take?

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Don’t Delay

If your dream is to have a place in the country, a place where you can have a garden, futz around with a tractor, and generally live a life that’s beyond your personal realm…don’t wait.  Don’t wait until retirement.  There will be a reason you can’t pursue it then. Don’t wait until you have the money; you never will.  Don’t put it off until something “falls into place.”  It won’t.  If that place in the country is your dream, make it happen. Go into debt if you must. Get a place that’s a little shy of your ideal.  Just get a place.  Because if you don’t, you never will.

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June 22: Thoughts for the Day

At the right time, a smile is a beacon in the storm, a safe port that offers shelter from a raging sea.  We all should be that beacon, that safe port.  All it takes is a smile.

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Advanced Reality Test…One, Two…

My wife and I are on an alternating insomnia schedule.  One night, she’ll awaken at 2 or 3 and be up for an hour or two, the next night I’ll get up at 3 or 4 and be up for the rest of the day.  It’s my turn.  I was up just before 4 today. Fortunately, because I didn’t do the dishes after making dinner last night, I had something to do; the kitchen now looks like reasonably tidy people live here.

I would watch television, except the idea of watching television at 4:30 in the morning …whether Netflix or broadcast TV or recorded programs I enjoy…has no appeal.  So, instead, I babble on with my fingers doing the talking.  I returned to a piece I started writing a week or two ago, in the hope I would be in the right state of mind to add to it or, at least, improve what I’ve already written, but the right state of mind eludes me.

Perhaps peyote would do the trick. I sometimes wish I’d been the rebellious, adventurous young man I never became, experimenting with mind-altering substances.  I wonder what the experience of using peyote or LSD or other such stuff would have been like.  I went only so far as to try marijuana a few…very few…times.  If the stories I’ve read about LSD trips are remotely close to factual, my experiences don’t compare.  However, the first time was a bizarre experience…after finally feeling the sought-after “high,” I was confused and did not know whether I had already made the trip back to San Antonio from Austin or whether I was still in Austin.  That’s another story.

Today, we’re planning to visit the new Artisans’ Market at Grove Park in Hot Springs Village, then zip over to Little Rock to try to find some items we cannot find locally.  But, first, we have to confirm the stores are open on Sunday.  If not, we’ll do it another time.  I hope they’re open, though; I’d like the opportunity to log three more beers at The Flying Saucer (and let my favorite wife drive back).

But now, I’ll return to the kitchen and make my 5:00 a.m. cup of coffee, inasmuch as my 4:05 a.m. cup has long since disappeared.

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Indian Food on the Brain

We made a quick trip to Benton and Bryant yesterday, about 45 miles one-way. Our first stop was at a furniture store; we do not need any furniture, but my favorite wife decided she needed to see what sort of stuff the place stocks, anyway.  Then, we went to Sutherland’s, a building supply place, like Home Depot or Lowes, but grittier and closer to the old-style lumberyard/home center.

From there, we headed over to Bryant to find Desi Den, an Indian restaurant we’d seen during a stayover in Benton on a house-hunting trip a few months ago.  They have a lunch buffet Thursday through Saturday, we learned…a good lunch buffet including saag paneer, aloo gobi, chana masala, baingan bartha, chicken korma, chicken tikka masala, naan, etc., etc.  The regular menu includes a number of lamb and goat dishes, including vindaloo…one of my favorites.  I asked if the vindaloos are ever included on the buffet.  “No, they are very spicy,”  was the reply.  There were other menu items that looked interesting, things with which I was unfamiliar until searching them out after we got home: chicken jalfrezi, kadal chicken, and shahi bhindi.  We left satisfied, carrying a paper copy of their menu and a commitment to return.

Next stop, Target, where among other things on the shopping list was Mexican oregano, something not stocked by the stores in Hot Springs.  We found that the Target does not carry it, either.  But having just had a wonderful Indian lunch, we were delighted to find that an item my wife bought on a whim the last visit was still in stock.  Last time in the store, she picked up an item from a clearance table; it was Target’s own brand (Archer Farms) of an “Indian-Inspired Vindaloo Meal Kit.”  Normally, in my experience, such stuff is far from satisfactory, but this stuff was actually very good and very spicy! After we had that “kit,” we went online to find that it has been discontinued…oh, no, no more Archer Farms Indian-Inspired Vindaloo Meal Kit! But yesterday, we found, and bought, the six remaining boxes from the store. Though I prefer to make my Indian food from scratch, these “kits” are exceptional, especially for the price we paid: $1.98 per box.  The spices, alone, would cost more than that, if I were to make it on my own.  And the kit includes everything (even basmati rice) but the meat.

Once home, I used half of the giant zucchini we bought on Thursday  to make dinner, cutting it into chunks, mixing it with tomatoes and Italian seasonings, and cooking it in a pot on top of the stove.  Though it took quite some time for the zucchini to get tender, it was a pretty decent vegetarian meal, all we needed after the lunch buffet.

As I was finishing up the last of my bowl of zucchini, I began thinking how I might prepare the other half.  Aha! In place of the Italian seasonings, I can use sambar powder to give it an entirely different flavor. My mind is still on Indian food.

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June 21: Thoughts for the Day

When the morning whispers softly to awaken me, I arise and slip slowly into the day. There is no need nor any reason to rush; the day arrives at its own pace.

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June 20: Thoughts for the Day

Look for ways to engage people.  Look for reasons to enjoy their company.  Give them reasons to enjoy yours. It is work, but it can be pleasurable work.

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Words

In the process of sorting through masses of paper during the course of our move from Dallas to Hot Springs Village, I came across some interesting historical materials.  I found copies of articles (the “executive director’s messages”) I wrote for a magazine while I managed an association.  Most of the articles focus on issues relevant to members. Sometimes, though, I allowed myself to inject my interests into an article dealing with member-focused comments.  I found it interesting to read what I wrote back in November, 1994, a few sentences and a few phrases from which follow:

I am an admirer of language,an ever-aspiring wordsmith who privately writes short stories and a bit of poetry…I enjoy listening to someone who can ‘turn a phrase.’ I enjoy the richness of words and carefully crafted sentences and delightful paragraphs.…Words and the thoughts that breed them are the driving forces behind what all of us accomplish.

I then went on to offer some quotes from people who I believed used words well:

  • Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored.  Aldous Huxley
  • The one thing that doesn’t abide by majority rule is a person’s conscience.  Harper Lee
  • Whatever their other contributions to society, lawyers could be a good source of protein. Richard Guindon
  • The human mind treats a new idea the way the body treats a strange protein; it rejects it. P.B. Medawar
  • Some of the greatest love affairs I’ve ever known involved one actor—unassisted. Wilson Mizner

Twenty years ago. I was in love with words and language then, too.

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June 19: Thoughts for the Day

That moment, that spectacular moment last night when I saw four deer beneath my window, is seared into my memory.  But memories never last.  Nor do the feelings of gratitude and awe.  One day, all those memories and all that gratitude and the experiences of awe will turn to dust.  They will evaporate.  Why, then, should I treasure them now?  Because this life is all we have!  Treasure the moments, because moments become memories and memories fade and disappear. It matters today.  It won’t matter in a hundred years.  But it matters today.

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Intransigence

There is something to be said for employment, whether as employer or employee.  Employment offers a place to be every day, a place where there is a purpose.  It might be to cook hamburger patties or to install windshields or to teach advanced calculus or to exchange goods for money in a retail store.  Whatever it is, it provides a reason to focus one’s attention and it gives a target for that attention.

Absent employment, one create one’s own purpose.  For some people, that may involve a surrogate, like volunteering as a caregiver in a nursing home or as a welcome ambassador in an airport.  For others, it might be engaging in a hobby.  But for some, creating purpose seems to take on the characteristics of an almost insurmountable obstacle.  It’s like entering adolescence and having no idea what to expect, other than fear and impossibilities.

I think there’s a reason the obstacles arise.  They result from a refusal to compromise on one’s expectations. The world isn’t as we might wish it to be; if we refuse to accept things that vary from our expectations or demands, we create our own obstacles.  If the purpose one might attempt to choose is out of alignment with reality, the options are to change the purpose or to refuse to budge, becoming frustrated and angry in the process.

Back to employment, though.  If the purpose the employment provides is not aligned with one’s expectations or desires, the options are to move along to more suitable employment or to realign one’s expectations and desires.  Or, of course, to be intransigent, becoming frustrated and angry in the process.

There’s much more to be said about all this, but I’m not saying it.  Not now.

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June 18: Thoughts for the Day

Anthropogenic.  Now there’s a word for you.  It means, basically, “resulting from human activity or caused by humans.”  Another, less formal…though not exclusive…definition might be: “all the bad that has happened since the dawn of man.”  That is, of course, if you buy the concept that “good” and “bad” are uniquely human concepts.

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June 17: Thoughts for the Day

Every now and then, I remember events and circumstances that haven’t occurred yet. It’s the same as when I recall who I’m going to be tomorrow.

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June 16: Thoughts for the Day

Today, I’m thinking about the lyrics of a tune sung by Roger Miller, Animal of Man.

Here are the lyrics; below them is link to a YouTube video of the tune.

His footprints can be found
on the graves of dead young soldiers.
On the amber covered plains,
killed by radio-active rains.

And his traces can be found
in the dying streams and meadows.
And he’ll kill you if he can.
He’s the animal of man.

Yes, his traces can be found
In the scars of red-skinned children
that have never fully healed.
Ask a Black man how he feels.

He’s a nervous gifted child.
He’s an old man been forgotten.
He’s a military band.
He’s the animal of man.

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June 15: Thoughts for the Day

The difference between rage and rapture is simply a matter of direction.

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Benefit Corporations

Yesterday, I stopped in a large bookstore in Hot Springs and browsed a bit. The selection of magazines was extensive, covering an enormous array of topics from music to archery and quilting to mathematics. I skimmed a few but settled on a copy of The Humanist because it included an article about benefit corporations, a topic in which I’ve begun to develop an interest.  My interest goes beyond just benefits corporations; it extends to corporate behavior in general and ways it can be improved.

The author of the piece, John Montgomery, is a Silicon Valley based attorney whose practice focuses on corporate law. He also is the author of Great from the Start: How Conscious Corporations Attract Success.

Montgomery argues (though I didn’t need convincing) that traditional corporations are driven strictly by motivations to maximize profit and serve the financial interests of their shareholders, with no consideration given to the impact corporate actions may have on society and our planet. Essentially, he suggests corporations have no conscience, so soul, no heart…they are driven by greed. In this short article, he explains how this came to be and how corporations’ drive for profit today results in their legally but unethically dodging taxes, wreaking havoc on the environment, and shredding the lives of people worldwide.

He advocates for benefits corporations, as do I. If you are unfamiliar with benefits corporations, here’s a quick summary: their charters require them to have a corporate purpose to create a material positive impact on society and the environment. They are required to consider how their decisions impact not only on shareholders but also how they affect workers, the communities in which they do business and sell their products or services, and the environment. Finally, they are required to make publicly available an annual benefit report that assesses their overall social and environmental performance against a third party standard.

Montgomery quotes the “Declaration of Interdependence” of B Lab, a nonprofit that promotes corporate responsibility:

We hold these truths to be self-evident:

  • That we must be the change we seek in the world.
  • That business ought to be conducted as if people and place mattered.
  • That through their products, practices, and profits, businesses should aspire to do no harm and benefit all.
  • To do so requires that we act with the understanding that we are each dependent upon another and thus responsible for each other and future generations.

B Lab administers and confers the Certified B Corporation designation, but not all benefits corporations are certified (there is no requirement for that).  Benefit corporation status is conferred by states and is only available in states which have passed authorizing legislation. The Certified B Corporation designation is available in every state to corporations that achieve a verified minimum score of 80 out of 200 possible points on a proprietary (by B Lab) assessment.  There are more Certified B Corporations (1000+) than there are benefits corporations (fewer than 800).

Since the first benefits corporation law was passed in 2010 (in Maryland), about 800 corporations in the United States have become benefits corporations.  Other states that have passed benefits corporation laws include:

  • Arkansas
  • Arizona (effective at the end of 2014)
  • California
  • Connecticut (effective in October 2014)
  • Colorado
  • Delaware
  • Florida (passed, awaiting governor’s signature, to be effective July 2014)
  • Hawaii
  • Illinois
  • Louisiana
  • Massachusetts
  • Minnesota (effective 2015)
  • Nebraska (effective July 18, 2014)
  • New Jersey
  • New York
  • Nevada
  • New Hampshire (effective January 2015 if governor signs bill and she says she will)
  • Oregon
  • Pennsylvania
  • Rhode Island
  • South Carolina
  • Utah
  • Virginia
  • Vermont
  • Virginia
  • Washington, DC

Legislation is pending in another dozen or so states.

Wouldn’t it be nice if the shareholders of ExxonMobile voted to follow suit? I am not holding my breath.   But it would be nice for people to become aware of benefits corporations and corporations that have achieved the Certified B Corporation designation.  I don’t know of a way to search for benefits corporations, but it is possible to search for Certified B Corporations; go to this site.

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