Author Archives: John Swinburn

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"Love not what you are but what you may become."― Miguel de Cervantes

May 11: Thoughts for the Day

I’ve seen the protective shields that mothers—not all mothers, but most—place around their children.  Those shields can be penetrated by rocks and stones, but only enough to harden the child against future attacks.  Those maternal shields deflect the most damaging assaults. I suppose … Continue reading

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May 10: Thoughts for the Day

I need to remember this: there are more important things than uncooperative wifi networks, cantankerous computers, glitchy light switches, and rusty nails. The sun, for instance, and coffee.

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May 9: Thoughts for the Day

Every now and again, your memories torture you.  They shred your wishes and dreams and they thrash your desires against the rocks like waves in brutal storms. There’s a lesson there, somewhere, if only you can learn it.  But if  there’s no … Continue reading

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May 8: Thoughts for the Day

Never forget the people who cared most about you.  They are the reason you are who you are today.

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Random Rant

I have to wonder whether some people are criminally stupid.  Is there a condition wherein an individual’s stupidity constitutes criminality?  I believe there is. There are people in this world whose very existence is anathema to goodness and reason. These are … Continue reading

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May 7: Thoughts for the Day

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  The beholder is obliged to express his or her appreciation of that beauty to the subject whose beauty is beheld, and to the surrounding world that failed to even notice. I happen … Continue reading

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May 6: Thoughts for the Day

I believe Shakespeare drank beer.  That is reason enough for me to do the same.

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Living in the Last Century

I can’t quite describe how it feels, but for some reason, it feels like I’m living in the last century, the late 1950s to be precise.  I’m referring only to tonight, not to my life in general.  But tonight is … Continue reading

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Decklife

Aside from a few fierce storms that could have wrecked the center of the earth and beyond, the weather here has been rather nice thus far. But yesterday, the thermometer reached levels that would have prompted my father to say the … Continue reading

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May 5: Thoughts for the Day

Listening to NPR’s All Things Considered makes me feel like I’m “home,” even though I’ve tended to listen to it while I’m in the car.  Yesterday afternoon, as I listened to it in my little studio/office/storage room off the garage, … Continue reading

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May 4: Thoughts for the Day

One’s demons don’t come calling only in the dark of night.  They are there, at one’s side, every moment of every day. Until they reveal who they are, they are chilling shadows who block the light.

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Winning the Battle but Losing the Soul

Yesterday, I behaved in a way that is utterly counter to my stated belief in being compassionate and empathetic.  Even before the experience was behind me, I felt pangs of guilt and felt bad about the way I was behaving. … Continue reading

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May 3: Thoughts for the Day

“You will not be punished for your anger; you will be punished by your anger.” ― Gautama Buddha

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May 2: Thoughts for the Day

Let a little conservatism into your liberalism.  Let a little skepticism into your belief.  Let a little callousness into your empathy.  Let a little love into your hate.  Mix it all up and before long you’ll be less bitter and a little … Continue reading

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May 1: Thoughts for the Day

Transitions are easy, if you just let them be.  April to May.  September to October. Carnivorousness to vegetarianism.   Asian to Hispanic.  Episcopalian to Republican.

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Overcoming the Faults

You overlook the faults in people you love. Or, at least, you accept them and move on.  It may not be the same with buildings.  Whether you “love” buildings or not isn’t the point; it’s whether you accept faults and … Continue reading

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April 30: Thoughts for the Day

Looking up into the night sky to see millions of tiny white specks is a remarkable experience.  The response to that experience may create religions or generate an appreciation of the vastness or the universe.  In one case, the experience is … Continue reading

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Slow

At first, the attitude was aggressive.  Nonstop, fast-paced, hard-driving, get it done.  But it slowed after the third day.  The urgency receded, replaced by the recognition that it can’t all be done at once.  Some things take time.  Rushing can only lead … Continue reading

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April 29: Thoughts for the Day

For me, a day can be judged a good one the moment I realize the sun has risen and I did not die in my sleep.  If I can hold on to that attitude, everything will be all  right.

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April 28: Thoughts for the Day

I’ve been asked whether I prefer the mountains or the seaside, which is akin to asking whether I would rather breathe or have blood course through my veins. [As of 2:31 a.m., when I write this, we are OK…tornado devastation … Continue reading

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Self-Imposed Privilege

Even those who call themselves champions of every man may set themselves apart as members of an elite group to which only the select few may belong.  That  is why I can be a skeptic.  But not always.  And not today. Doctors … Continue reading

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April 27: Thoughts for the Day

Every question has an answer, but the reverse is not necessarily true. That reality should inform the inventors whose products vie for time on late-night cable television. Yet, still, there are those who invest their money and our time in marketing … Continue reading

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April 26: Thoughts for the Day

Slow down. It is impossible to catch that rabbit or that rainbow; it’s best not to try.

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April 25: Thoughts for the Day

Sleep is something most people take for granted.  But when it won’t come, or it comes and then leaves early, it’s no longer possible to be so cavalier about it.

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Newcomers

The day before we closed on the house, after the formal walk-through, we were inside the place, considering where to place furniture when it arrives, when the doorbell rang.  It was a guy named Larry and his two dogs, out … Continue reading

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