John Swinburn

Real emotions arise from experiences—whether real or misremembered or contrived by the mind in its natural state. Artificial emotions arise while processing the effects of artificial stimuli. Whether those two statements are true is open to question. But assuming they, especially the second, contain a kernel of truth, one’s perspective on the world may change. The emotions that emerge from the consumption of alcohol or marijuana or cocaine or oxycodone or hundreds of other mind-altering substances, then, are artificial emotions. Is it possible, though, for an emotion to be “artificial?” The spark for the emotion…yes. But the emotion itself? What might an artificial emotion be like? Perhaps a combination of tenderness and rage. Or a simultaneous mixture of depression and pride. Maybe disgust and joy? What are hallucinations but imagined experiences…and their attendant emotions? Is an emotion artificial if brought about by misinterpreted reality? The mind is an amalgamation of interpretations of reality and fantasy—not the reality or fantasy itself, but its interpretation. Without the ability to interpret experiences (actual or imagined), the brain is simply a protomind; an embryonic potential, nothing more. Note that the definition (utterly unofficial) lacks the qualifier, correctly, for interpret. This entire paragraph may consist of incorrect interpretations and outright manufactured assertions. So, too, may be humans’ understanding of everything we thought we knew.

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Spilt milk gathers no moss. The early bird gets the flu. All is fair in love and burglary. Better safe than parental. What does not kill you makes you angry. The only thing we have to fear is measles. The unexamined life is not worth taking. Actions speak louder than fish smell. Don’t judge a book by its reader. Early to bed and early to rise makes a man sleepy, weepy, and corpulent.

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Historically, more people have died of religion than cancer.

~ Dick Francis ~

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I attempt to be grateful for everything positive in my life. And I succeed with some frequency. But, too often, things get in my way: hurricanes, lies claiming people are eating pets, ballistic missiles, deranged politicians, climate change, monkey pox, abortion bans, a murderous sheriff, pharmaceutical price-fixing, and a thousand other actions and events like them can dim the prospects of global peace and happiness. Humanity, it seems, is a killing culture. We could change, of course, if we were adequately (and collectively) motivated. What keeps us from attaining what is possible? Maybe it’s that we all have different dreams and are insufficiently compassionate.

According to my computer screen, the sky is overcast and the temperature is 70°F.  The bright blue sky beyond the sun-drenched oak trees and pine trees tells me nothing about the temperature, but argues forcefully that the sky is not the dreary shroud the online weather report claims. If I were a skeptical curmudgeon, I might use that obviously erroneous report of current sky conditions to dismiss the value of online weather information. If, on top of being a skeptical curmudgeon, I was conspiracy theorist, I might claim the authorities (whoever they are) have hatched an evil plan to use weather misinformation as a sinister tool to: a) prompt a violent rebellion against the National Weather Service; b) divert attention from the U.S. government’s plans to forcibly annex Venezuela; or c) test the degree to which the public can be manipulated into believing the color grey is actually blue. Another possibility, of course, is that I might claim weather misinformation is being used in an elaborate plot to change the name of the State of Alabama to the State of Grace. Admittedly, that elaborate plot would be a far-fetched idea; almost impossibly intricate and dazzlingly convoluted. Who knows, though, really? Conspiracy theorists are notorious for having been improperly hard-wired in the extreme. Remember Pizzagate? A pizza parlor (Comet Ping Pong pizzeria) ostensibly involved, with heavy involvement by senior Democratic Party officials, in a human trafficking and child sex ring. That idea apparently got immediate traction with conspiracy theorists. Word on the street is that the brains of many of the most fervent Pizzagate theorists inexplicably had been switched with their rectums. That explains the origin of the crude expression, “shit for brains.”

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Speaking of improper hard-wiring…I wonder how a simple glitch in a weather report generated such bizarre ideas? I cannot answer that, but I can trace a dream’s origin to a common experience, infected with underlying anxiety. For several days, I’ve been quite congested and my nasal passages have alternated between extremely dry and constantly dripping. During these past few days, the tissues I used when blowing my nose have been red with blood and phlegm (I know, it’s not pleasant morning reading). Anyway…I dreamed that my oncologist told me the nose bleeds were signs that my lung cancer had gotten much worse and that I should immediately start planning for my inevitable demise. Obviously, barely beneath my subconscious when I saw blood on the tissues, I was concerned. I worried that it wasn’t just dry, cracked nasal passages bleeding in response to blowing my nose. Hence the dream. A touch disturbing, but when conscious I can readily explain it away.

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There will come a point at which we can buy and sell Time. It will be sold in packages ranging from 30 seconds to 1 year. The effect of buying time is to extend one’s life by the amount of time purchased. Sellers’s lives decrease by the amount sold. The price per 30-second unit will be higher with each incremental increase. So, for example, if 30 seconds sells for 10¢, 60 seconds might sell for 22¢, 90 second for 36¢, and so on. Obviously, the price for a full year  would be astronomical. The buyer of a one-year extension will have to be extremely rich and quite desperate. The seller of the one-year extension will become instantly and enormously wealthy; but he could get the full value out of the sale only if he were to live at least one year after the transaction. If, on the other hand, he were to live only a week or a month afterward, he would have been robbed by time. Before we reach the point at which Time can be bought and sold, the troubling details will have to be worked out.  I would do it, but I’m just not sufficiently good with math to work it out.

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Mi novia returned from her trip last night. Even with a little less solitude than I had the last few days, the world is now a better place.

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I slept late today and I am plodding through the morning at a snail’s pace. It’s almost 11 a.m. and I still haven’t had breakfast (except for a jolt of espresso). Having heard mi novia‘s story of her grandson’s attempt to order a breakfast of enough pancakes to feed 7 (or more), I wish I had some pancakes for breakfast. But only a few.

I have been told I should have a hobby. It’s not the first time I’ve received such advice. I have taken it, too. For a few years, I enjoyed working with clay, making bowls and plates and masks. If someone were to provide me with a fully-equipped private studio, I might return to it, but ventilation would have to be exceptional, considering the fragility of my lungs. Not long ago, I tried stringing beads. I enjoyed it and will do it again, but not often enough to make it a hobby. I would like to learn how to create stained glass art. As with clay, if someone were to provide me with a fully-equipped private studio and a personal tutor, I might give that a whirl. Same thing goes for wood-turning. I’ve tried my hand at painting (both acrylics and oils); enjoyable while I’m creating, disappointing when I see the hideous product that results…nothing like I envision. Finally, I recognize this: I enjoy viewing and otherwise experiencing art, but I do not possess artistic skills and talents. Card games, chess, and other board games do not interest me. Writing might be my hobby, I suppose, but I seem to have lost any substantive creativity I might once have had; that loss has taken much of the enjoyment out of it. A recent suggestion: learn a new language—I have neither sufficient interest nor adequate capabilities to succeed, I am afraid. Hunting: no. Fishing: once, but probably not again. Cooking was once a very attractive pastime, but I have lost most of my interest in that. Literally thousands of options are available to me, but I simply have not found the right one at the right time. I will keep looking.

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Every breath we take, every step we make, can be filled with peace, joy and serenity.

~ Thich Nhat Hanh ~

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In my younger years, someone in my personal sphere—I cannot recall with certainty who—referred to badly-behaving children as noxious weeds. Obviously, the phrase was not a term of endearment. Neither was it, in the context of my youth, as negative as it might initially seem. I remember it as a matter-of-fact expression of annoyance applied to a child going through a period of acting out. The term was not meant to identify the child as “pre-criminal,” maturing as fast as a weed grows; usually, just a temporary irritant. At least that is my perspective today. All children go through a noxious weed stage. And some stay there.

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At the intersection of one’s religiosity, political beliefs, and moral compass is something that may once have been innocuous, but is no more: one’s diet. Diet is no longer simply a personal choice. It is a social tool used to express certain elements of one’s personality and personal beliefs. And it is a bludgeon, a weapon to attack others whose perspectives differ from one’s own. Increasingly, diet is associated with one’s foundational political viewpoints. Vegetarians and vegans lean left; omnivores are more likely than the V-People to lean right, for example. Dietary choices are linked to one’s (and others’) morality, depending on point of view. Meat-eaters sometimes are chastised as morally bankrupt for their complicity in the immoral treatment of animals. It is impossible to be sure that grass-fed beef and free-range chickens emerged as a reaction to that charge; but it might be so. Religious beliefs variously prohibit eating cows, any meat (period), fish on certain days…there must be dozens and dozens of other religiously-dictated dietary rules and guidelines.

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My theory, which I call Swinburn’s Solid Flower Rule, is this:

When gases reach an exceptionally high temperature (142 nonillion kelvins, 10^32K), known a the Planck Temperature, gases transform into an entirely different substance, which, for lack of a better term, we call ExKaZEEdro. ExKaZEEdro is no longer a gas but, instead, a hard, dense, solid membrane that flows like liquid water.

If not for some troublesome human traits—unfortunately widespread—Communism and Socialism might well attain versions of the goal of a classless society. Two of the more common difficult traits, greed and unbridled ambition, prevent achievement of the utopian dream. Genuine idealists may yet believe the desire for a classless society can be met; but they are delusional. Once exposed to the fruits of money and power, the less committed idealist unknowingly becomes an apologist for greed and ambition. People whose passion for the ideal is laced with hairline cracks begin to justify social strata and uneven distribution of wealth. They reason that achieving equality must necessarily occur gradually over long periods of time…enough to merit their own “temporary” superiority and economic dominance. Coming to these conclusions does not require complex logic nor deep study—only a willingness to be painfully honest with oneself about one’s own morality. And that is an exceptionally difficult reckoning.

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During the year-plus Phaedra has lived here with us, she has shed well over five thousand pounds of snow-white fur. If we had allowed it to accumulate, floor joists and beams would have buckled under the weight, splintering massive timbers into useless shreds of pine. But we try to keep up with her deposits of cat hair, vacuuming four hundred pounds of fur per month—around one hundred pounds per month. Losing one hundred pounds of fur every month is not a problem for her, though; she grows back that much and more. I do not understand why she does not lose much dark hair. Maybe it’s just a matter of background and visibility.

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My weakness is irritating in the extreme. When I get out of bed, I feel like getting right back in; sleeping another few hours (even after 9 hours in bed) is extremely inviting. I can get nothing of consequence done, except for emptying my brain of empty thoughts onto this blog. The idea of picking up a five-pound bag of sand, aside from being pointless, is frightening; it might crush me under the weight. Give me ten minutes, though, and I easily will be able to lift up to nine pounds. When I compare myself now to the man I was before, I see few similarities. But when I ask myself who I was then and who I am now, I can only mumble about serving in Napoleon’s army and how it changed me from a soldier to a monk who carries a mace and a grudge. Despite what these words might suggest, I am a peaceful soul who has a low threshold for combustion—a gentle man who, when disappointed, tears galaxies into chaotic clouds of exploding stars. Just look into the night sky at the edges of the Andromeda Galaxy; my work.

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With a return to semi-sanity, I bid you a good day and a lifetime of happiness and love.

An article in Business Insider about the prominence of South Asian American children in spelling bees reminded me of my long-held interest in spelling bees. Though I participated in the occasional spelling bee as a elementary school student, I did not outshine my competition. Despite my modest—but by no means stellar—performance, I was intrigued by how exceptionally well some students did. I was impressed with their fierce commitment to the competitions and what motivated them. Although I watched only a few televised Scripps Spelling Bee competitions over the years, when I did I, I enjoyed them and found myself rooting for several participants. Over time, the superior performance of South Asian American children caught my attention. I learned from the Business Insider article that “Many Bee winners are the children of highly-skilled immigrant parents who put a high value on education and foster a love of words and language, which underlie the significance of academic activities like spelling bees among immigrant communities.”  It occurs to me that the cultural value bee participants’ parents place on academic activities could serve as a model for “the rest of us.” Instead, it seems most American parents tend to view sports as more important than academia. My gut suggests to me that students who perform well in spelling bees are apt to be especially successful in subsequent careers that require intellectual discipline. I would be interested to measure my gut sense; compare spelling bee high-performers’ career achievements with those who did not participate in spelling bees. Designing such a study might be challenging, but a well-conceived research study could yield powerful results…and might encourage parents to focus on intellectual achievement versus performance in sports. Just curious…but hopeful. By the way, the E.W. Scripps company is one of the largest local TV broadcasters in the United States.

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News that the eight largest theatre chains in the US and Canada have announced a $2.2 billion renovation plan for their theatres suggests a major change in big-screen viewing is in the offing. The question, of course, is whether the cost of big-screen experiences (huge screens, better sound systems, upgraded amenities, etc.) will compare favorably to the benefits afforded through streaming at home—control (privacy, pausing, rewinding, viewer-specific food and beverage options, etc.). I like big screens and superb sound, but I think I like control even more…especially when that control is less expensive.

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Despite feeling less than 100% (more like 40%) last night, I stayed awake and watched three episodes of the limited series, IC 814: The Kandahar Hijack. The characters speak mostly Hindi (with English subtitles), with a liberal sprinkling of English. Based on the events of a December 24, 1999 hijacking, the mini-series is tense, action-packed, and sufficiently mindless to let the viewer sit in a shade of a trance for awhile. I would compare it favorably to grinding coffee, but without the required effort and attention. I will decide tonight whether to continue watching the remaining episodes.

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Mi novia is off visiting her daughter (and daughter’s son and husband) for a few days. I am glad she is able to take a little time off from being caretaker (I keep telling her I can be my own). I am glad to have a few days to myself, as well. It’s not that I am getting anything done in her absence; it’s just that a few days of mostly solitude gives me a sense of relaxation that’s unavailable when others are present. I suppose that goes to the heart of my personality; I need time alone. I do not need to feel productive during that time (which is good, inasmuch as I decidedly am not productive lately), I just need solitude. That having been said, her return will be cause for celebration. In the interim, I will be a childless cat man.

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I wrote this piece this morning, Saturday. I thought I had posted it. But a phone call from one of my brothers made me realize I had finished it, except for one thing: hitting the publish button.

I fell asleep at the keyboard. Dozens of lines of type, with nothing on the screen but repetitive f. This is becoming commonplace. Enough. I will try more sleep.

Our greatest pretenses are built up not to hide the evil and the ugly in us, but our emptiness. The hardest thing to hide is something that is not there.

~ Eric Hoffer ~

I know only a bit about him, but I have enormous admiration for people like Eric Hoffer. He embraced the only employment opportunities available to him (as a manual laborer, stevedore, farm worker, etc.) in his youth and middle age, while educating himself all the while, thinking deeply and writing about social order, power, and mass movements. Hoffer’s insights into the development and execution of social movements were highly regarded by both laymen and academics. The first of his ten books was published when he was about 53 years old. Subsequent books others wrote about him extolled the clarity of his understanding of social change; he was a brilliant social psychologist/sociologist whose intellect was especially surprising, given his lack of a formal education. If I had the mental energy, I might read his works. But I am not Eric Hoffer. I can only admire his exceptional intelligence; not replicate it.

People who bite the hand that feeds them usually lick the boot that kicks them.

~ Eric Hoffer ~

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Another 12 hours of regularly shattered sleep; every hour or two, my restlessness jarred me awake from troubling thoughts and dreams. Each time, I assumed I was awakened by the need to pee; sometimes, that’s what it was, but just as often it could have been a sense of terror borrowed from the dream from which I awoke.

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Borrowing terror reminds me of a related phrase I read within the past day or so: borrowing trouble. I think the phrase was presented something like, Never borrow trouble from the future; that is an admonition to avoid letting possible difficulties that have not yet occurred interfere with real circumstances in the present.

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My brain is scrambled, due in part to the damned mouth sores that began appearing around a week ago. They are not really painful, but they make themselves known. I have yet to receive the medication that should (I hope) relieve them. So I wait. And I wonder whether there’s any food I should avoid for fear of exacerbating them. My thought processes suggest I should avoid all food, just in case, but I have been told—in no uncertain terms—that I must eat, lest I get dangerously weak. That is better advice than the recommendation I give myself. Chemotherapy drugs have all manner of side effects, none of which I find appealing. Mouth sores are among the unappealing accompaniments to those damned intravenous poisons.

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I’ve eaten two tiny containers of tasty yoghurt this morning. I remain hungry, though leery of food. Perhaps I should thaw some cooked rice, flavor it with soy sauce and sambal oleek, and hope the sambal oleek does not cause the inside of my mouth to erupt in flames. Lately, even very slightly picante food burns my tongue, as if I were eating marbles of molten steel. Jalapeños, one of my favorite foods, have become my enemies—behaving as if they were treble fishhooks make of white-hot titanium. Fairness plays no part in my diet. Food is given to me to inflict pain, not to provide nutritional sustenance. The yoghurt was rather pleasant, though, but I wouldn’t be surprised to learn in short order that it had been laced with tiny razor blades and alcohol.

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Though I slept for 12 hours (more or less) last night, I feel like I could sleep for another six, at least. But I shall not. Not right now, anyway.

Every so often, fluorescent lime green spots of color appear on the t-shirts and shorts and tennis shoes people wear. Nobody I know, of course, but quite a few strangers who pass me on the street or in stores or honk at me from their lime green cars. I am not certain that I am viewing reality. The spots of color may be hallucinations brought on by an intense yearning to understand experiences outside the dull-normal circumstances surrounding all of us. Anyone reading this knows those spots of color are evidence of free sanity; sanity unbound by our interpretations of drabness.

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For thousands and thousands and thousands of years, humans have engaged in a life-or-death struggle with the natural environment. Without constant efforts to protect ourselves against the ravages of Nature, we would have been, by now, long extinct. If Nature had not fought against us in so many ways, humans might have succeeded in weakening Nature enough to reduce all but the utterly unbeatable natural dangers. And those unbeatable dangers probably would have erased human blight from the planet. One way or another, Nature was assured of conquest—it was and is just a matter of time. What Earthly creature actually needs humans in order to survive and prosper? Few, if any. Yet, in order to survive, we need Nature to submit to our demands or, at least, to refrain from attacking us. If Nature were proven to have intent, I would say Nature simply wants to enjoy roughhousing with human toys.

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Roughly fifty years and seven months ago, Patty Hearst was kidnapped by the Symbionese Liberation Army (SLA). About nineteen months later, she was captured by the FBI; not as the kidnap victim, but as a bank robber and common criminal. Today, September 18 (as reported on the NPR website), is the anniversary of her capture in 1975. The final member of the SLA was caught in 2002. Though many people believed—and still do—she joined her captors due to being a victim of Stockholm Syndrome, she was tried for her actions in the SLA and was sentenced to seven years in prison. Her sentence was commuted after two years and, later, she was pardoned. I wrote an even shorter blurb about Patty Hearst ten years ago. My interest in her story is not based on fascination. It is a matter of simple curiosity; just not enough to justify the effort necessary to learn every facet of her SLA experience.

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Yesterday was another day of extended sleep; so much that I could not sleep well last night. But just after 4 this morning when I decided to get out of bed, I drifted off for half an hour. And the same thing happed a half an hour later. And then the half hour after that. And on and on until, finally, I got up around 6:30. Here I am, half an hour later, feeling moderately comatose, but I do not want to emerge from the coma. I would prefer to get back to sleep and stay in that state for another five or six hours. I only wish.

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I’ve been dealing with the recurrence of my lung cancer since the end of December 2023. Had my treatments gone the way I had hoped, I would have finished the formal chemotherapy in three months; treatment would have continued for two more years, but that follow-up treatment would have been immunotherapy designed to keep the cancer in check. Instead, different poisons are being tried; evaluations of their impacts will determine whether any of them should be continued for its effectiveness. Ach! Nine months and then some, with no certainty. I haven’t asked the oncologist how my body might react if I simply stopped the treatments; she probably would say I would die within a fairly short timeframe…months, perhaps. That’s what she said when I asked the question when I was first diagnosed with cancer almost 6 years ago. Cancer has the potential to end life and, in the process, wreck what’s left of it. Far too many people successfully deal with cancer, though, for me to give up on it. But it can be tempting.

There is no reasonable explanation for the dream, in which I clung precariously to the front of a small airplane that was piloted by someone I did not know. But I knew of him; he had been tasked with teaching me new procedures for developing the cover for a technical book. To do that, the pilot ferried me (in the air) from one parking lot to another and back again as we searched for someone with whom to discuss the process of designing and printing book covers. We found the person and he explained the process. Next, I was in an Olympic-sized swimming pool, where I painted a black square on the surface of the water near one end of the pool. “That’s not the way we do it these days,” the pilot told me as we flew off again to seek more relevant education about the process.

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Perhaps sleeping—off and on—for ten hours had something to do with the dream, though I cannot imagine how. Like yesterday, my head pounded a bit when I awoke; and still does. Also like yesterday, though, the pain is relatively minor, just an annoyance more than an actual pain. Enough, though, to make me want to to incapacitate my nerve endings. If I knew just how to do that, I might. But I would  have to get up from my chair, find some sort of semi-narcotic, and then wait far too long for the effect to take hold. So, instead, I sit here, silently complaining. If my fingers could scream, though, the silence would be pierced with howling wails as I stab the keyboard with angry, bitter fingers.

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I should be hungry this morning—and I am (just a tad)—but I am unwilling to try to eat anything just yet. If I were to try, I fear I might not be able to keep it down. Yesterday, I drank a small container of coffee-flavored Ensure and, later, ate a couple of spoonsful of Cherry Garcia ice cream. Obviously, not enough to sustain me for long, but enough to satisfy the shred of hunger I felt. This morning is much the same; very minor hunger kept at bay by concerns about overdoing it. I do not feel nearly as exhausted as I felt yesterday, but I remain very tired…with enough fatigue remaining that I might decide to return to bed. My growling stomach might keep me awake, though, even as empty as it is. Just a few sips of water this morning, sufficient to swallow a handful of pills. Why, I wonder, does my gut make such loud noises when there’s virtually nothing in it? I want an answer, but not badly enough to do any research on the subject.

The third consecutive day without even a single lengthy nap—and without feeling weak and a bit feeble—did not sustain itself through last night. Five hours after going to bed early, I woke with nausea, which worsened and led me to empty the contents of my stomach.  After rinsing away the evidence of the event from my face and mouth, I took an under-the-tongue anti-nausea pill, which seems to have worked reasonably well. However, I feel extremely tired at the moment and my head is pounding just enough to be irritating; I may return to bed soon in an attempt to sleep the sense of fatigue away. If I knew the degree to which my body is successful in its fight against my cancer, I probably would feel better—at least mentally. That knowledge, though, will have to wait until my next set of scans and other measures.  When my body and my brain conspire with one another—like they are this morning—I cannot seem to muster the energy for optimism. But I am not pessimistic, either. I simply acknowledge the reality that I cannot control how well or how poorly chemotherapy is working for me. We want to be in control, but we rarely are. It is best to recognize that fact and take whatever comes.

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For the moment, my energy is inadequate to permit me to continue rambling on. I will try, again, to sleep. The several pee-breaks last night, along with the nausea, have left me feeling spent and withered. Perhaps a bit more sleep will heal whatever ails me. I will count on it.

Outside in the darkness, night creatures have spent roughly the last hour wrapping up their evening prowls in preparation for the coming day. Dawn, also called Civil Dawn, is the time in the morning when the sun is 6 degrees below the horizon and there is enough light to see objects and start outdoor activities. Astronomical Twilight is the time when the sun’s center is 18 degrees below the horizon. My uneducated guess is that the creatures of the night begin preparing for the day around Astronomical Twilight, a time of day most people would still call nighttime. According to TimeandDate.com, Dawn today will begin at 6:55 a.m. in Hot Springs Village, Arkansas; Astronomical Twilight began at 5:26 a.m.  During the night, well before Astronomical Twilight begins, all sorts of forest dwelling mammals take advantage of their superior night vision and other enhanced sensory capabilities by spending their time seeking food. I am jealous of the eyesight of wild, undomesticated animals, especially those with the ability to see with severely limited sources of illumination to help them along. I would like to go outside around quite early and see as clearly as those creatures do. This morning, I was up half an hour before Astronomical Twilight, but my vision is far inferior to the beasts of the forest; so, at that time of pre-dawn darkness I can see virtually nothing except…darkness. Even so, I love that part of the day. Other than the noises forced on me by tinnitus (e.g., buzzing of insects, blood pumping past my eardrums, and other imaginary sounds), there’s rarely any sound at that hour. Glorious stillness. As close to silence and serenity and pure calm as I can get. But, if I had the superior sight and sense of hearing that many forest creatures have, perhaps my serenity would be drowned by forest sounds and blinded by the unwelcome illumination of the mysteries of darkness. I can only imagine the impossible; I cannot live it.

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After writing about darkness and dawn and the differences between humans’ experiences versus the experiences of forest animals, I stopped writing for a bit, while I watched dim light wash down from sky—behind and above the trees. Viewing nighttime turn into daytime can be a stunning experience, even without brilliant colors displayed by the visible sun and beautiful clouds. Though those colorful sights are incredible, the slow, simple illumination of a grey, cloudy sky sometimes fills me with just as much awe. The difference is that spectacular sunrises give us no choice but to be overwhelmed by their magnificence, whereas being captured by the amazing beauty of darkness gently draining from the sky requires intent. And a willingness to be in awe of something we can never truly understand.

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We attended a service at church yesterday afternoon, dedicated to a remembrance of a fellow churchgoer who died recently. Though I knew him, spoke with him often, and frequently enjoyed our conversations, I did not know much about the personal and professional history that was shared during the remembrance. Mi novia has mentioned several times in the past that it is unfortunate that we seldom learn much about acquaintances at church (and elsewhere, for that matter) until such a remembrance service is held. Not infrequently I think about inviting select people within my “sphere” to write their own obituaries to share within the group. Writing an honest account of your life might leave revelations about what was most important to you, what had the most meaning, your regrets, and otherwise might expose who you are—really—behind the mask. And that same account might enable you to understand more about yourself than you have ever tried to know. But…maybe we’ll all frightened of revealing who we really are…maybe we want people to know, but first we need to find out for ourselves. I imagine most of the things we might force ourselves to reveal would be regrets about what we did, or did not do. Perhaps instances of failure to be the kind of person we wanted to be, but did not strive hard enough to achieve. On the other hand, I am not sure a passel of regrets would be of any real value; maybe focusing on the successes and the accomplishments is a better way to summarize one’s life. But a comparison, at least, of who we wanted to be versus who we became, might bring about understanding that otherwise could never arrive.

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Despite having taken no naps yesterday and the day before, my night’s sleep last night and the night before were interrupted several times for pee-breaks. Getting back to sleep took too much time. Finally, at 4:45 or so, I gave up and got up. And it’s good I did. Otherwise, my random thoughts and mindless meanderings might not have made it through my fingers and onto the screen. Look for the bright spots, John.

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More espresso, more pondering, more viewing of what the nearby-world looks like in darkness and in light, more introspection, more uncertainty. That’s among the mass of random “stuff” that has gone through my mind since beginning this morning’s post. And that’s that.

So many obviously staged “good deed videos” appear on Facebook that I usually bypass them. Still, every now and then a new one comes along that is not as blatantly manufactured to gather “clicks.” After my eyes water and my heart sings, I think about what I have seen and I conclude, rightfully, that the video is bogus. I shake my head at my gullibility for being misled into buying into the legitimacy of  another video created to make money. Yet I would rather be happily misled by a bogus “good deed video” than so skeptical that I miss an opportunity to view a real one. Yesterday, I watched a short video of two people freeing a fawn that was caught in a barbed-wire fence. A day or so before that, I saw one in which a young woman stopped her car on a highway and coaxed a little turtle across the road.

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When death, the great reconciler, has come, it is never our tenderness that we repent of, but our severity.

~ George Eliot ~

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I wrote about my fascination with flames a few days ago. I wrote, too, that I acknowledge the potential horrors they can bring. My curiosity about and deep appreciation of the beauty of fire…the colors, the heat, the shapes of tongues of fire twisting as they rise…rarely are fulfilled. Finding an appropriate and safe place to light and watch (and control) a fire is not easy, nor is it something I try to do often. I am satisfied, though, watching a fireplace or grill or building a campfire, but neither are as powerfully mesmerizing as a big bonfire. As I look around my desk and the perimeter of my study, I see plenty of unnecessary paper that could be used to ignite a bonfire. In fact, the paper would not be needed to start a mammoth conflagration; the paper, alone, could make a beautiful sight if lit in controlled surroundings. I wonder whether some arsonists are devolved, from people who simply enjoy watching fires burn, to people who enjoy setting fires and feeling some sense of power for the damage they cause? Arson is a serious deviant behavior that—despite my enjoyment of watching flames—seems far more common than I would think. Some bizarre relationship must exist in the arsonist’s brain that links fire and pleasure and, at the same time, severs the relationship between fire and fear of causing damage, pain, and/or death. Thinking about “good deed videos” leads me to also think about the horrors of deliberately set forest fires that kill people and animals and destroy property. I might try to have compassion for the arsonist who set that fire, but I am afraid I would fail.

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The number of socially unacceptable behaviors described by words/terms in American English must be enormous. Perhaps there are computer-based linguistic applications that would identify and count them—machine intervention to handle the process probably is necessary. A few of the problem behaviors, which have varying degrees of severity  include:

• Sexual harassment
• Murder
• Sexual assault
• Rape
• Bullying
• Name-calling
• Arson
• Lying
• Physical assault
• etc., etc., etc., etc.

A flash thought, quickly corrected by even brief consideration, might cause a person to think about the “opposite” of each bad behavior. But what is the opposite of sexual harassment…it’s absence? And murder? Again, the opposite? What about lying? Truth-telling seems to carry more gravitas on the positive side than simply lying does on the negative, which can range from telling innocuous fibs to more powerful prevarication.  Most of the bad behaviors do not have obviously “correct” antonyms. Murder, for example, and rape… the obvious terms,” not-murder” and “not rape,” would be considered absurd. And, of course, the word “murder” has multiple meanings and connotations.

So many negative behaviors exist, but somehow the majority of people seem to grasp and adhere to rules against those behaviors. Not only do we know and follow the rules, we know the relative severity of bad behaviors—murder is worse than name-calling, for example. The ways we learn to understand and abide by social expectations include teaching, modeling, negative-modeling, and probably at least a dozen (or a hundred) other ways. Why, when the majority of society is overwhelmingly on track with attitudes toward socially unacceptable behaviors, are we forced to continue to battle against those behaviors? Studies by sociologists and psychologists offer extensive ideas about how to overcome the problems, but neither punishment nor correction seems to do much good after a behavior has been ratified in some way…not getting caught, being applauded by one’s social peers/gang members, being feared by one’s victims and others who know them, etc.

The term “indoctrination” is associated with propagandizing and brainwashing. But that’s what leads to either good behavior (whatever that is) or socially unacceptable behaviors—isn’t it? I have been away from formal education in sociology and psychology for almost 50 years, but my interest in the subjects has remained fairly high. Not high enough, though, to have propelled me to keep up with research on the causes of and solutions to deviant (especially deviant and dangerous) behaviors. It’s a shame that my knowledge of the subjects is insufficient enable me to converse intelligently with experts in the fields, but my interest in the topics is not shared by many people, who share my limited education education in the subjects. That’s true of so many other matters; I am curious, but not adequately informed and not sufficiently curious to become better informed. I wish I had been equipped with a more acquisitive brain—or more energy to successfully pursue the acquisitions.

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The office of poetry is not to make us think accurately, but feel truly.

~ Frederick William Robertson ~

I cursed the transition from Winter to Spring; not for the weather, but for the clothes. Buying men’s clothes, as I’m sure I ranted about in the past, is a nightmare. I’ve spent many months losing weight, which meant I had to replace clothes that no longer fit. With every slight drop in measurements, my clothes became unusable. And new ones were labeled by the manufacturer with random sizes, mostly designed for very tall, very thin men who have hips. One of my chief complaints about men’s pants is that they assume every man has a pronounced butt to hold up that paints. Not so. I actually know other men whose pants are baggy in the butt because they, like I, can find nothing that fits all over.  The industry apparently claims the sizes they affix to clothing are legitimate, but to find even one measurement (out of those for waist size, collar length, chest size, sleeve length, cuff size, hip size, inseam size, narrowest (and widest) length of below-knee sleeve length. From company to company and even within companies, labeling is grossly inaccurate. I want to to remind you that my complaints remain valid (the failure to standardize clothing sizes should be a crime…punishable by public flogging and a lifetime of looking for a pair of men’s jeans that fit me and that are medium-washed). However, I may have been (and probably continue to be) more harsh in my assessment of the industry than I should have been. Considering what I’m after—off-the-wrack, hand-made clothing. Custom. Bespoke. There may be good reasons for manufacturers to limit sizing selection decisions to a range of sizes that feedback has verified as customer preferred. BUT WHY DON’T THE MFRs AT LEAST STANDARDIZE CLOTHING SIZES AMONG  THEMSELVES??!! And, really, I’m not making unreasonable demands—I won’t be asking for a custom piece of apparel, a codpiece that conceals my sword or my cane.  Enough said.

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I just returned from my post-chemotherapy injection, something to fight infections because my body cannot do that very well the day after my chemo. For today, while I am feeling decent and not nearly as tired as I have lately, I will pretend to be human. I will plan to go tomorrow to a remembrance service for a fellow church member who died after a years-long battle with cancer. And if I am in a cooperative mental frame of mind and physical condition Sunday, I will plan on going to church again.

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Beginning several years ago, I started thinking about creating some new magazines. Over time, my thoughts materialized to the extent that I wrote descriptive sales pitches for advertisers and readers. Despite the idea taking up far too much of what could have been productive time, it kept my creative juices flowing…a little bit. And now I’m back to it.

Auto Theft Today, targeted toward the professional who finds it increasingly difficult to keep pace with technological developments in automotive theft deterrent systems;
Home Invasion Today, a magazine for the discerning criminal who needs to know the latest tips and tricks for avoiding occupied dwellings during his or her professional undertakings;
Mugging Today, aimed at the more violent offender who wishes to keep abreast of current practices in illicit crimes against persons;
Bank Robbery Today, a hard-hitting practical how-to guide that features monthly interviews with professionals who have retired from their careers (they got caught) and with some of the more astute players who continue to astonish the critics;
White Collar Crime Today, a must-read periodical for white collar criminals confronting a topsy-turvy world in which successful white collar criminals must also be politicians, and vice-versa, WCCT features interviews with well-known white collar criminals whose political connections spared them the indignities of prison;
Identity Theft Today, designed for the sophisticated identity theft professional who understands the need to keep abreast of fast-developing new deterrent and facilitation technologies.

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It’s approaching 10:30 a.m. where I am, physically. Mentally, the local clocks will register 4:30 p.m. in a few minutes. Forecasters say the temperature where I dream I am will drop to 48°F (9°C) tonight. Nice temperatures for layered sweaters and jackets. Rain chances are slight this evening, but increase considerably tomorrow, so the best plans for the day are to take an umbrella, walk to a nearby pub, and spend the day chatting with a few folks who seem amiable and interesting. A bar with large windows overlooking the bay. This particular spot is in Lerwick, Shetland Islands’ largest town, population roughly 7,500. That constitutes one-third of the Islands’ entire population—so there’s plenty of emptiness around and about. I know very little about what it might take to go there, buy a remote but reachable place on the seaside (either Atlantic Ocean or North Sea or one of many bays), and live in peace for as long as I might want. I have done enough research over the years to know there are very few places…other countries…to which emigration is relatively easy. Watching Shetland on television convinced me the town and environs are beautiful. But learning about the massive influx of tourists unloading from cruise ships concern me; 285,616 passengers reported unloaded in Lerwick in 2023, according to The Shetland News. I would have to live in a non-touristy area of Lerwick or go out into the countryside, possible on one of Shetland’s many islands, some of which must be nearly uninhabited but readily accessible by ferry.

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I suppose it is too late in life and condition to make huge changes. But it was nearly as late within the last four years, too. So, maybe it’s not too late to do something big and chancy. A new house, a new environment, an additional set of friends (and a place for current friends to visit), and a clearing of the mind…eliminating constrains imposed by self-doubts or fear. What, exactly, would that look like? Mi novia might take a lot of convincing…maybe more than I can muster, so that dream would have to be modified or replaced. Hobbies, I think, have the ability to clear the mind of troublesome thoughts or insurmountable obstacles. I should get one; or get back to some that once captivated me.

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This day is flying by at the speed of light. Almost all of them do.

Just a shade more than two years ago, we sat in a spa on the wooden deck outside our resort room, soaking in the heat of the swirling water and feeling the cool wind blowing in off the Pacific. I would rather do that this morning than present myself for another chemotherapy treatment. But you can’t always get what you want… Memories sometimes simply have to do—when reliving the experience is not possible in the moment.

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We’re stopping on the way to the cancer center to pick up a couple of dozen doughnuts—a token of appreciation for the staff who so professionally and pleasantly deal with cancer patients. Most of the patients seem reasonably pleasant, as well. Some can test the limits of tolerance, though. I try to be one of the pleasant ones.

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A thousand things are on my mind, but none sufficiently vivid to warrant even a fraction of a blog post. What does, though? I write in spite of the merit of what I have to say. But some days I cannot fool myself into thinking there’s any value in thinking with my fingers.

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It is time to head to Hot Springs. Today’s session will be finished in three to five hours, just in time for lunch if I want to eat. My mind is blank. And for the time being, so is my memory.

Most people experience the world around them as normal.  While a farmer friend in a distant state expresses appreciation for good weather and a productive growing season, a friend in a distant country is grateful that the latest barrage of missiles did not destroy his apartment complex. The appreciative farmer views a productive farm as normal. The grateful apartment dweller considers missiles raining from the sky as normal. In fact, though, neither experience is normal. Normal does not exist; not as we might think. The state of being that we call normal is just a deviation from chaos. How can a person who has never wanted for anything be considered normal? He can’t, because there are so few like him. But how about the person who has lived her whole life just a day away from starvation? She’s normal, if for no other reason than she lives among thousands who face the same threat. I argue against myself so often; my win-loss record is about 50-50. Sometimes, seeing matters from multiple perspectives is a curse; from those points of view, it is possible to see that solutions and contradictions pair poorly with problems and harmonies.

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For the first ten or fifteen minutes of last night’s debate, I worried that it would not go the way I hoped and expected. Trump was unexpectedly coherent and focused in those first few minutes, while I thought Harris seemed wooden and weak. But then it changed—completely. I was not as enamored of Harris’ performance later in the debate, as were the network anchors, but she improved dramatically in short order, while Trump dissolved into the pathological liar I have always believed him to be. Some of what Trump said was simply incoherent; most of the rest, extreme distortion and pure fabrication. Despite the obvious differences between the candidates, I fear the possibility that Trump could win; every rational American of voting age MUST be registered and vote in November to avoid that existential horror.

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Finally, only five months after the initial deadline, my taxes have been filed. I requested an extension, not because my return is complex but because I was lazy. I will get a combined $8 refund between State and Federal taxes. I prefer to keep my money, as opposed to lending it to taxing authorities.

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Just across the driveway, high up in the branches of a big oak tree, I see what appears to be delicately shaped crystalline Christmas decorations. When I look to the right or left, I see glass globes dancing wildly with every gust of wind. The shiny spheres are green and yellow, the same colors as the leaves of the tree. And so are the images of the bearded man and the tall, thin woman. These images—all of them—are the result of a psychological phenomenon called pareidolia, which causes people to ascribe meaning to random patterns. I wrote about pareidolia on a post about six years ago. I had to think hard about the word this morning before I remembered its meaning. As soon as it clicked with me, I started remembering seeing images in clouds’ puffiness; dogs, cats, sailing ships, human forms, etc., etc. Perhaps one day I will have to work hard to remember images of glass globes in trees.

Sunday night, just before bedtime, I realized I was scheduled for two MRIs (lumbar and thoracic) early the next morning. So, we left the house at 6:15 yesterday morning to make my appointments. The rest of the day is a blur; I am sure I slept quite a bit, but otherwise I do not recall much about the day—though mi novia and I watched a tad of an Agatha Christie mystery, featuring Hercule Poirot, last night. This morning, I woke late—about 7:30—and made avocado toast for breakfast. A short while later, because I felt extremely weak and tired, I went back to bed. I drifted in and out of sleep until just shy of 11:30, when I decided I had better get up…so I did. And that describes the extent of my experiences since Sunday night. Those experiences—the enormous amount of sleep and the exhaustion/fatigue—are increasingly common as one’s chemotherapy continues; according to what I read. The more I read about cancer and its treatment, the more I learn that my reactions to ongoing chemo is normal. Day after tomorrow, Thursday, I will have another chemo session. The doctor’s calendar suggests it will last three hours; from experience, I know to expect at least four hours and maybe five. I used to believe the effects of chemo would begin to disappear within three or four days following treatment; I know better now. It’s almost as if I can count on only a few truly normal days between treatments, which are administered three weeks apart. And my expectation that I would undergo four chemo sessions has been erased; I am not sure just how many treatments I will receive, nor how long it will take to complete them.

Maybe I will know more after Thursday. But a substantive update will probably have to wait until at least this week’s treatment and the one that follows in three weeks. I am tired of being tired; but my experience thus far has not been especially difficult, so I will try not to complain. It is what it is. Eight-plus months, so far, dealing with the recurrence of my cancer, with two bouts of pneumonia thrown in the mix. Try as I might, it’s not easy to avoid being depressed from time to time. Looking outside, I see beautiful blue skies. The outdoor temperature is 79°F. If I had more energy, I would enjoy soaking in the wonderful weather, but even a short walk would leave me winded and weak. If I had more energy, I might scream. But I need to conserve what little I have for celebrations when they are appropriate.

There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.

~ Washington Irving ~

The unconscious mind expresses grief through memories of events that never occurred—but for which the griever would gratefully pay—with years of his life—to have experienced. Grief has its own prescriptive economy, supported by a currency of tears and regret. Unlike an exchange economy, the economy of grief does not allow for barter. There is nothing to buy or sell or trade; just exquisite memories of a glorious history and longing for an impossible future. Dreams of beloved experiences and missed opportunities are the coin of the realm of grief. There is a vast sea between Irving’s unspoken love and unspeakable love; grief resides in that emotional chasm.

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You’re born, you live for a time, and then you die. Describing one’s lifespan in such simple terms begs the question: what is the point? It would be a stunning surprise to learn that an enormous majority of people have no interest in the question. Whether they are religious or not, most people (I think…) want to believe human life has a point. But ask them to articulate that point and they tend to stumble and mumble…they want to believe there’s a point, but they are not quite sure what it might be. Try as we might, humans largely have been unable to identify and express that point, except through religious assertions laced with contradictions and magical thinking. Or with arguments based on premises completely lacking in logic. Some find it hard to accept the possibility that life—human or otherwise—has no purpose. That life just is. And then, later, it isn’t. But if there is no point to life, why do we consider it sacred? Perhaps because we want to believe we matter. And of course we do…to a limited number of others. Perhaps we consider life sacred because that belief places constraints on most of us; taking a life would be too easy and too common if we did not consider life important. That it has a point. But, really, does it? What matters, I suppose, is not whether it has a point but, rather, whether we believe it does.

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When does old age begin? Does it coincide with a specific number of years or a specific physical condition? Is one’s mental status relevant to defining the commencement of old age? The beginning of old age probably is contextual—in other words, it depends. In a population in which a large proportion of people live beyond 100 years, old age may start at 85.  A population in which the average age is 45, old age may begin at 60. A similarly difficult-to-answer question might be: When does youth end? Is that, too, contextual?

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From early one mourning to late in his life
he wept and remembered pulling a knife
on a defenseless young soldier on the front line.
He stabbed the poor boy and stole all his wine
and blamed the old captain, who only drank gin.
The captain was sentenced to die for his sin,
but the killer recanted, so the captain was spared
by the judge and the killer, who actually cared.

The idea of assimilating immigrants into American life is just as delusional as assimilating American immigrants into Ugandan life.  In neither case does one culture absorb one group into the other. Rather, the native cultures must adapt and accommodate the immigrants, just as immigrant cultures must adjust to their new hosts. The initial difficulties that both hosts and guests (for lack of better terms) have with the other are based on the degree to which each must change in response. Those difficulties are based on the erroneous premise by each that immigration brings about a net loss of cultural identity, rather than growth of cultural assets. In other words, hosts expect their cultures to be diluted and guests expect their cultures to be dissolved. Those expectations, if not managed properly, become self-fulfilling prophesies. And those expectations, by the way, are manifestations of fear. The key to managing the fear is to find ways for both hosts and guests to understand that blending, not assimilation, of cultures enriches both. But to “…find ways…to understand…” is far easier said than done. Only when hosts and guests simultaneously search for, and reach, that understanding can fear be held at bay.

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Flames of a wood-burning fire mesmerize me…a reasonably small, easily managed fire. Forest fires, on the other hand, terrify me. But watching videos of even massive conflagrations as they consume hundreds or thousands of acres captivates me. The way flames swirl, seeming to create their own fierce and windy weather, inspires awe—even in the face of horror. A manageable fire—in a pit designed to contain it—is beautiful. Witnessing logs transform into flames and smoke and ashes is an almost mystical experience. I think I understand why fire is or has been so deeply revered by various cultures. Perhaps I should proclaim Prometheus as my patron pagan. Probably not, though. Despite the stunning beauty of flames of a raging fire licking the sky, the horrific damage it can do is beyond comprehension. Fire is at once beauty and hideousness; love and hate. Fire provides warmth. And it can be used as a weapon. Flames are gorgeous, yet dangerous, contradictions.

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One’s fantasies are beyond private. They are secrets so intimate a person is just barely willing to share them with himself. If a person were to reveal his or her deepest fantasies to anyone else, they could be used as suicidal weapons or as indestructible emotional adhesive.

Fantasy is hardly an escape from reality. It’s a way of understanding it.

~ Lloyd Alexander ~

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The heads of the CIA and Britain’s MI6 spoke together on the same stage for the first time this weekend. Except for the gravity of the decisions they must make, often on the basis of incomplete or uncertain information, I might enjoy taking on their roles for a while. But I do not need the stress, so I will not pursue that possibility.

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Just a few more days until my next chemotherapy session; 3 to 5 hours of sitting in a not-entirely-comfortable recliner. The effects of my last treatment should have dissipated by now, but I remain perpetually exhausted. I woke this morning with a slight headache; it is still slight, but now it throbs in time to the beating of my heart and the irritating noise only I can hear. Nothing even remotely terrible, but sufficiently annoying that I give occasional fleeting thoughts to swallowing all my remaining narcotic-laden pain pills. But I know better than to do something irrevocable; so I just wait for today’s version of normal, when I will be able to sleep again.

Some of the most dangerous people are those who are intellectually stunted and indoctrinated in extreme, regressive conservatism. Absolutely the most dangerous, though, are those who have a superior intellect and who are indoctrinated in extreme, regressive conservatism. The phrase, regressive conservatism, is misleading. A different (and perhaps new) term, regressivism, more correctly describes the extreme, fascist-tinted political, social, and fiscal philosophies of people who cluster near the far-right end (the barbarism sector) of the humanitarianism scale. Intellectually advanced regressives can argue their viewpoints persuasively, despite the fact that their foundational philosophical assumptions often are invalid; the unindoctrinated intellectually stunted are easily swayed by them. Their persuasive capabilities are the pillars of their intense threats to modern society. Confounding the problem is the fact that regressives call themselves conservatives; and the rest of us let them get away with it. We lump them (who I’ll call rabid regressives) with the much more traditional conservatives. Traditional conservatives’ philosophies may differ from those of us who are left-leaning but, at least, whose philosophies are measured along the same spectrum. Rabid regressives claim to be conservative in their philosophies, but in my view they are as different from conservatives as are liberals/progressives. Conservatives and liberals exist in the same universe; rabid regressives exist in a parallel universe in which everything is broken and can be repaired only by wealthy overlords. These thoughts are leading nowhere. But perhaps they may be used to persuade actual conservatives to escape the parallel universe and return to the real world.

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What would Jesus do? What would Attila the Hun do? What would Buddha do?  What would Jeffrey Dahmer do? Role models abound—but do we really understand what we are doing when we deliberately decide to put ourselves inside the head of someone else (or even a fictional character) and behave the way we think they would? Is it not a bit presumptuous to think we have a clue as to how they might behave in a specific set of circumstances? I realize, of course, the concept of following the teachings or behaviors of a role model is meant to guide our own thinking about morality. I question whether we need to imitate or mimic someone else. If humans are innately moral (an altogether different question), models should be unnecessary. If we are not, what obligations do we have to conform to parameters of behavior that go against nature? If professional ethics (and personal morality) were not an issue, I would like to arrange for a number of sets of infants to be reared in two different environments: One would be exposed to “normal” socialization, including teaching about right and wrong, morality in general, etc.; the other would be reared without such teachings. At some predetermined age, the children’s
morality quotient (for lack of another term) would be measured. Alas, professional ethics prohibits such experimentation.

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A friend sent me a link to an intriguing concert by an exceptional young Norwegian musician who performs and records under the name Aurora; her full name is Aurora Aksnes. Listening to her sing reminds me of the Irish singer-songwriter who records and performs as Enya. Though quite different in many ways, both of them have ethereal voices that pair perfectly with the accompanying music. More about her at her Wikipedia page; to watch (listen to several pieces at the least), here is a YouTube video:

My disappointment at waking late again was tempered this morning by a breakfast of carrot cake. And I look forward to more cake and an assortment of other tasty delights for the rest of the day. Unfortunately, I had to miss the party; but the party came to me. I am eternally grateful for thoughtful friends…you know who you are.

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Cats are basically untrainable, but they are accomplished trainers. Or would it be more accurate to say they are expert manipulators? Given their innate narcissism and egotism, coupled with a pronounced lack of compassion, the latter description is more appropriate. Our knowledge of those characteristics notwithstanding, humans allow ourselves to be deluded, duped, conned, deceived, and otherwise misled by the conniving beasts. The consequence of their trickery, though, seldom is life-threatening, so we forgive them—in the hope that next time their displays of affection will be genuine. Purring is a display of a cat’s arrogant self-congratulation for its successful dishonesty. We interpret it, though, as evidence of affection—exactly as they intend. Shrewd creatures.

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Early in the month—a time when one hopes income will exceed expenses, if only by a shred. When the month comes to a close, measurements and calculations reveal whether that hope was justified or realistic. The timing may differ from place to place and person to person, but the concern about money lasting at least as long as month is nearly universal. Whether economic exchange is governed by units of money or by barter, it is a constant stressor. Throughout history, humans have relied on economic reciprocity. Communism, though, relies (conceptually) on economic altruism. “From each according to his ability, to each according to his needs.” Human evolution could have favored communism; instead, it favored various forms of capitalism and control. Universal benevolence would be preferable to unfettered greed. Achieving that state of affairs would require a massive thinning of the herd, though, which would be contrary to the core concept of universal benevolence. Capitalism, on the other hand, is not bound by benevolence. My ability to think coherently about economic theory is severely limited by an astounding lack of knowledge and an overabundance of fantasy.

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This morning’s dream: I was to make a presentation about security in mystery shopping. In the presentation, I was to use a loaded revolver that had no trigger guard. Somewhere in the dream, I was abandoned by friends who left me at a pharmacy, where I wanted to buy cigarettes (an ugly theme in my dreams of late). I lost my presentation notes and my phone and, for a time, misplaced the gun—which somehow had been dropped in water. Two people from my association management past—Tommy Mills and Lorri Kern—were in the audience for my presentation. Another member of the audience taunted me; I threatened to shoot him, but the woman in charge of the class promised to deal with the jerk. There was much more to this tangled dream, including walking through a deserted industrial area beneath a decaying freeway, but I cannot remember how some of the seemingly unconnected scenes might have been related. I felt intense stress during the entire dream sequence; I wonder whether I really felt stress or whether the stress was purely imaginary…like the dream?

The thoughts rattling around in my head this morning are interesting but irrelevant. For example, how many times can one halve the distance between two objects before the objects physically touch one another? Logic tells me they will never touch, because half of an even infinitesimal distance is still space. If it were possible to measure distance with such precision that ¹⁄₃₂ the width of an atom could be gauged, halving that distance would yield an even smaller space. But I find it impossible to imagine two marbles separated by ¹⁄₆₄ the width of an atom; in my mind, they would touch one another at that tiny distance. From a practical perspective, this consideration of distance is irrelevant. Theoretically, though? It may be just as irrelevant, but it just might be a crucial component to understanding a fundamental reality that could explain the inexplicable. My brain is far too limited and slow for me to ever hope to understand such matters. I wish I were exponentially more intelligent—and could apply that intellect to the real world—than I am. But I am not. My intellect is closer to that of algae than to Einstein. Irrelevant?

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There was a time when I was much more doggedly curious than I am today. I sometimes attribute the loss of fierce curiosity to age-related decay, but occasionally I have to acknowledge the part lethargy plays. Perhaps advancing age acts as fuel for lethargy, so the decline of inquisitiveness is both a result of decay and the growth of indifference. But indifference is not it, at least in my case. I am curious; just not sufficiently motivated or intrigued or otherwise compelled to invest the energy necessary to convert interest to action. In other words, I want to know, but I am too lazy to learn. Yet that condition is not age-related; at least not entirely. Even as a kid, I fantasized about an injection of a fluid that would, when triggered by electrical charges, magically endow me with knowledge. For example, I could become fluent in Spanish with one injection and possess a thorough knowledge of physics with another and a mastery of astronomy with yet another. If and when those electrically stimulated injections become available, I would like to be among the first recipients.

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We got our COVID-19 boosters and our flu shots yesterday. As a result (I assume), my left shoulder is sore this morning. It is impossible to tell whether my sluggishness this morning is related to the injections, but it would be unusual for it to be associated. I have been fortunate in that in the past I have not had any reactions to those vaccines. Mi novia feels the same soreness, but I sense she may feel a bit more of a reaction than I. Time will tell. Perhaps it is her turn to nap a bit during the day.

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Yesterday’s online version of the New York Times offered 100 Easy Dinners for Right Now. Skimming the article and the recipes linked to it sparked my interest in cooking, but almost all the dishes of the greatest interest to me would require buying ingredients that would use only some of the groceries. If I can muster enough energy, though, I think I could come up with enough dishes to use up all the ingredients I would need to buy. Dishes like sticky miso salmon bowl, lemon-garlic linguine, peanut butter noodles, vegetable yakisoba, shrimp pullao, coconut-lime shrimp, eggplant adobo, chana masala…and the rest.

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It’s after 9. I loathe sleeping in until after the sun rises. A large part of the day is wasted when that happens. Ach!

Years ago, my late wife and I took a train from St. Paul, Minnesota to Whitefish, Montana. I do not remember what motivated us to take that route, nor what we wanted to see during the few days we stayed in Whitefish. I remember clearly, though, the scenery as we traversed parts of North Dakota—hour after hour of empty prairies. And I remember overhearing other passengers complain about how the view outside the train’s windows was dreary and bleak and maddeningly dull. That is not what I saw when I watched the miles go by. I found captivating the desolation that other passengers found boring. There was something supremely serene about that isolated, repetitive landscape. Reflecting on that experience, I think gazing at the prairies was akin to meditation. I saw incredible beauty in those vast expanses of natural grasslands. My memories of Whitefish are vague. The snow-capped mountains and forests were spectacular, of course, but they did not get etched into my memory the way the flatlands of North Dakota did. I wonder whether I would see the same scenery if I were to make a return trip? Do my memories of the lonely landscapes reflect reality, or have I modified my recall to fit what I want to have seen?

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Last night, in conversation with friends, the matter of the “next stages” of our lives came up. None of us has an interest in battling the challenges of home ownership for the rest of our lives. All of us were in agreement that some form of housing in which the costs and responsibilities for maintenance, upkeep, yard work, etc. would be borne by someone else (knowing full well, of course, that the costs will be borne by us, whether directly or not). The appeal of townhouses or condos, in which costs of “home ownership” would be shared, probably would be offset by the fact that such “independent living” arrangements would involve close proximity to neighbors. Privacy would diminish at the same rate as individual obligations. Some of the conversation, though, triggered me to think about a modified version of co-housing, in which small groups of friends would buy or build individual low-maintenance homes on land configured to provide individual/family privacy and ready access to others in the group when needs arose. A small group of people might be able to jointly fund a limited staff to handle limited maintenance, housework, and so forth. At this stage of our lives, though, the time for planning and executing such a concept probably has passed. But maybe not…

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Old age and treachery will always beat youth and exuberance.

~ David Mamet ~

The human body presents obstacles to reverence. Numerous innate flaws interfere with our abilities to fully experience awe in its most spectacular forms. At best, our eyes only hint at what the visual world might offer if their acuity equaled or exceeded that of the eagle. When our eyesight degrades or fails, even that mediocre vision disappears. Human hearing, never as acute as many other creatures, decays with age or illness. We strain to process sounds, ultimately forced to guess at the meaning of noises we hear. Common afflictions like tinnitus rob us even of our ability to experience true silence. Our senses of taste and smell and touch, too, represent feeble attempts to help us process the world around us. The senses on which we depend to interpret the world around us are no comparison to the precision  of creatures whose senses eclipse our own. Technologies have enabled us to create devices that far exceed our own sensory capabilities. Only the brain, for now, seems to have an edge over technology in many functional areas—with the notable exceptions of certain computational capabilities and a few others.

These thoughts have led me to conclude that the functions of our eyes, tongues, noses, ears, and skin could be replaced by technologies that feed information directly to the brain. In today’s world, in which we regularly unleash machines’ more advanced capabilities, most of our bodies’ functions (and, therefore, most of our bodies) quickly are becoming extraneous. But achieving the ability to integrate the superior abilities of non-human technologies with the brain is a stumbling block…for now. Once seamless integration between the brain and those superior sensory replacements is achieved, humans’ understanding and appreciation of the world around us will be amplified exponentially. Imagine being able to read from the pages of a book a quarter of a mile away…or, when looking at a bee, seeing a super-high-definition image of the microscopic fibers protruding from its eyes…or hearing, at a distance, the rustling of grass as a snake slinks by in search of prey…or smelling the unmistakable aroma of freshly-cut cantaloupe from a roadside fruit and vegetable stand, long before you reach it. Obviously, the challenges of linking the brain to sensory receptors will require a better understanding of the nervous system and more advanced miniaturization capabilities and many other practical advances. Yet the difficulties of harnessing that information and those abilities will be worthwhile. The benefits will go beyond simply enhancing sensory abilities; by replacing the body with miniaturized machinery, humans’ nutritional requirements will decline radically…so, no need for mass agriculture on the scale necessary today. A question sure to arise about this concept is this: what about procreation…even if all we need is another brain, we need some way of ensuring the future of the species, right? No, in fact. Once we achieve the capacity to experience awe in every facet of our lives, we can comfortably accept extinction. Whether we will is, of course, an open question. And there’s the matter of unintended consequences, always an element of surprise that can derail even the best laid plans.

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I had every intention of going to church yesterday morning—until sometime in the wee hours of the morning. That is when I thought through the simple process of attendance—showering, getting dressed, going to the car, making my way into the church, engaging in conversations, and on and on—and determined the effort would be more than I was willing to make. The physical effort would not be difficult, but I was not prepared to exert the necessary mental energy. As it happens, I slept far more yesterday than I have slept in a long, long time. I hope that sleep helped adequately refuel me for another day; a day in which I can be more alert, more active, and more interested in life.

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Another weird dream. I was at a trade show, where I was supposed to represent my employer, which sold highly advanced audio-visual equipment. Three or four colleagues were with me. I took a break from setting up our booth and went outside into a dense, very busy downtown area. I bought a pack of cigarettes; even though they were my preferred brand, they looked and tasted different. Two of my colleagues brought their pets with them, a dog and a sheep; both had collars, but no leashes. I was asked to look out after the animals, but I could not keep up with them in the crowded streets because they lacked leashes. I went looking for them, wandering from street to street, to no avail. Finally, I decided to go back to the convention center, but I did not know where I was, nor did I know where the convention center was located. And I did not know what hotel I was staying in. Somehow, I managed to find the convention center, but I did not know where to look for my trade show. I did not know the name of the show, nor the name of the company I worked for. Finally, I found the entrance to the hall where my show was being set up. A large crowd lined the entryway, which was blocked by singers and dancers. I suppose that is when I awoke.

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So far, today seems like it will be a pretty good one. As well it should be; it’s Labor Day. Celebrate all the people who toil on behalf of others…the folks who try to keep the fabric of society from fraying beyond repair.

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Saturday was my sister-in-law’s birthday, a momentous one. Her daughters and granddaughter visited. If not for my iffy condition, I would have liked to have made the trip to Mexico to join in the celebrations. Such is life. Obstacles abound.

Greed and the thirst for power are symptoms…symptoms of a mental disorder actively cultivated by people who mistake wealth for intrinsic value and possessions for worth. Neither that mental disorder nor my interpretation of the symptoms that emerge from it will be found in the latest edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). The DSM attempts to remove judgment from the classification of mental disorders, which is as it should be. But for people, like me, who find certain mental disorders both offensive and intentional, judgments—harsh judgments—are appropriate. And those harsh judgments warrant the next phase in the assessment of people who take pride in their deviance—that next phase combines punishment with vengeance. Put another way, people who display an unnaturally powerful craving for wealth and control deserve to be rewarded with retribution. Several people come to mind when I think of extremely offensive and intentional symptoms: Donald Trump; Elon Musk; J.D. Vance; supporters of those men; among many others. I have no power to inflict retribution on any of them; but my passionate appetite for vengeance them cannot be denied. Some days, that desire is sufficiently strong that it makes me understand how otherwise decent human beings can cross the line between humanity and unrestrained, barbaric savagery. Rage can smolder for months—even years. Once the embers reach a certain temperature, though, the inferno cannot be quenched until an all-consuming fire transforms smoking wood and molten metal and living tissue into harmless ash. Imagining the fire is not as satisfying as fanning the flames, I suspect, but it is safer.

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An hour in an oncology treatment chair yesterday was enough for me, though I was not being given chemotherapy. Just IV fluids and magnesium, the latter of which continues to be perpetually lower than normal. Several other components of my blood, too, always are low; and several always are high. I assume the cancer and/or the chemo are responsible for the deviance from normal, but I just realized I rarely know with any confidence what is causing the aberrations. I forgot to mention to my oncologist that I have begun to feel mouth sores on my lower lip. I know mouth sores are among the dozens of side-effects of chemo and I have read what to do about them…to keep them from getting intolerable. I am so ready for chemo to end, but I suspect that will not happen, at least not for a good while. A normal life is, for now, out of reach. The closest I can come to it is to give myself over to dreams…and hope they are pleasant ones. But, as I will readily admit, I am for now one of the lucky ones; my symptoms can be annoying, but they are tolerable. Some people face almost impossibly unpleasant experiences. I have great good fortune in that my symptoms are only irritating, not intolerable.

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A man I have known for several years (from church) died Tuesday night after a long battle with an aggressive form of cancer. Other members of the church are dealing with broken bones and various other physical mishaps and maladies. Others have succumbed to the ravages of life during the past year or so. Time refuses to stop…even to pause…to allow the realities of the cycles of life and death to sink in. Given no choice, people simply must deal with existential change.  Or fight it against all hope that the cycles of existence will continue in a perpetually repeating pattern of varying levels of health or illness. The recurrence of my lung cancer, discovered at the end of 2023 after five years with no evidence of cancer, was unexpected but not really a surprise.  I think I am still processing that fact, nearly nine months later. The original plan to address the recurrence has been abandoned, due in part to allergic reactions to some chemo drugs and in part to side-effects. So, instead of a four-cycle chemotherapy treatment, followed by two years of immunotherapy (basically the same as chemo, but with different drugs), I am now in the midst of another four-cycle chemotherapy treatment, which will be followed by an as-yet-unknown treatment (after CT scans and/or PET scans). How long, I wonder? It depends on whether and how my body responds.  If I could erase all this from my mind for a few days, I think I would feel considerably better; at least mentally. I am not scheduled for another visit to the oncologist until September 12; I  hope nothing interrupts that hiatus.

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We had a late lunch yesterday at Waypoint Marina, a burger joint on the water not far from our house. Mi novia has a smash-burger, which she judged as very good, and I had a yellowfin tuna poke bowl, which was very good…even better than I had expected. The place was close to empty, though there was a small group of people eating outside on the deck. I hope the place survives, though how a spot designed primarily for tourists can be closed on Sunday and Monday (especially SUNDAY), is beyond me. A few years ago, I ate lunch  there after church on Sunday; I do not understand the rationale of a weekend closure for such a place.

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Today is Saturday. Eh. There’s a day like this once a week. It’s as common as Mondays and Wednesdays. I am in the mood for a bloody mary, but I won’t have one. Not right now, anyway.

Mi novia called my oncologist’s office yesterday to report that I was weak and my blood pressure was quite low again—and to ask whether I should return for more IV fluids. A return call from the cancer center advised me to cut my blood pressure medication and to return this morning for more IV fluids and another infusion of magnesium. Today being Friday, the office nearby (less than 20 minutes away) is open; that is where I will go in in less than 45 minutes. I suspect I have already rehydrated myself, thanks to consuming what seems like a massive volume of water, but I will follow the doctor’s advice and mi novia‘s rabid insistence. I wonder whether my day-to-day experience will ever return to what I once considered normal? The current version of normal leaves a lot to be desired.

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There was a time when a ready reserve of energy was always available to me; when I wanted or needed it, I simply called it up. Ever since I began this seemingly endless round of chemotherapy treatments, though, I have to gently coax—or prod—my energy to surface. Only through persuasion does it cooperate. That is not entirely true. Sometimes I feel just fine…two weeks or so after a round of chemo. It occurs to me that I may be experiencing a placebo effect; the fluids the nurses pump into the port in my chest may be harmless fluids that I simply believe are harsh chemicals. The medical team could be playing with me…laughing hysterically behind the scenes when I report psychosomatic side-effects. How incredibly embarrassing that would be! Of course, I do not believe I am being tricked, but….hmm.

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I have decided to get rid of my pricey treadmill. If I can sell it, great. If not, I will donate it to an organization or an individual who may put it to good use. A home health nurse who visited me after my last hospital stay suggested I stay off of it because it could present a danger to me if I tried to use it during one of my “weak spells.” That’s been a while ago, but the idea still resonates with me. By freeing up the space in my study, I could turn my desk to face the door and still look out the windows. In fact, my view would be bigger and broader and more enriching. In times past, I would have insisted on selling the thing for top dollar, but I no longer feel the need to squeeze every available penny from the unwise expenditure. The money has already been spent. The lesson has been learned/re-learned/ reinforced. Spending money on fantasies is a waste, although I might feel more inclined to throw money at luxuries than at promises I should know I will not keep.

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The older I get, the more unsure of myself I become. I used to think I knew things. Clearly, though, I simply bought into my own arrogance. Now, I question everything I once believed I knew. That mindset opens up an entirely different set of possibilities to explore. Science has the right idea; everything is…and should be…open to question. Until I have been exposed to absolutely everything (which I think is utterly impossible), I cannot really know anything.

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Time to saunter into the kitchen and then to the car and then to the oncologist’s office. I slept far more than I needed last night, but I suspect I might want to sleep even more when I get home. Or maybe not. I do not know.